I think i'm in love with a girl, and I don't know how to show her what I feel. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend, but i'm not sure its allowed in Islam.. call her, give her attention, tell her about your feelings...I want to ask her to be my girlfriend, but i'm not sure its allowed in Islam.. girls don't need physical connection they feel loved with attention if she feels the same you can take it from there...the football hero], and so begins her first painful crush, which is accompanied of course, by sending him anonymous �Valentine�s Day' cards, or calling him and playing songs over the phone.But this has all the ingredients that a classic romance novel does not...those candy-coated pages do not tell you about the heartbreak, the tears, the mood swings and the countless negative aspects that are the central to these relationships Everyday life becomes a misery..marks drop, daily moods start to depend on the current state of her relationship with the boy and many girls, totally misled by Shaitaan, even make dua for a �reconciliation.� In the worst possible scenario, which is frequently happening, the girl, in an effort to improve her �self image,� may turn to various other ways...smoking, clubbing, drinking and drugs..she may embark on a series of flings just to make herself feel �special� again.�The woman and man guilty of adultery of fornication, flog each of them with a hundred stripes: let not compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah, if ye believe in Allah and the Last Day: And let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.� As difficult as it might be to end such relationships, once we realize and acknowledge to ourselves that the novels to which we are exposed to from such an early age are totally based on a kuffaar way of life, which appears to be very appealing from the outside, but which bears no contentment, no real happiness, it will in sha Allah, be easy to do so.

" You commit no sin by announcing your engagement to the women, or keeping it secret. Do not meet them secretly, unless you have something righteous to discuss.We should realize, that while it is natural to be embarrassed to discuss such aspects of Islam with them, it is infinitely better for them, that we impart the correct knowledge of an Islamic way of life to them, than allow them to acquire the totally wrong concept of �love� from books, television, movies, and their friends and environment.It should be explained to each teenager that the pre-marital relationships, the engagements, etc to which we attach such a great deal of importance in this world have nothing but a negative bearing on our lives in the aakhirah. If dating is haram, Is there any better way to show that I love her without dating? I think i'm in love with a girl, and I don't know how to show her what I feel. Thanks for the answer there are plenty of ways you can show a girl you love her... If dating is haram, Is there any better way to show that I love her without dating?